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1960

UGRD Engineering '60
Tom Besmer

Thomas J. Besmer Sr. ’60, Sep. 5, 1933 to Jan. 13, 2015. Tom Besmer was a big man in more ways than one. Standing at 6’5 ½” tall, he was not one to be missed. As a young man, and from a family of nine children, Tom enlisted in the U.S. Navy. After the Navy, he married Dovaleen (Gross) and he attended Santa Clara University.  During those years, they lived in the old Quonset huts. It was an era when married students attended SCU and lived on campus. He played basketball for the Broncos and graduated with a BSEE in engineering in 1960.  

After graduating, they settled in Cambrian Park, and attended St. Francis Cabrini Parish, then moved to West San Jose and attended St. Martin of Tours Parish with their eleven children.
 
Tom was employed by both Lockeed and IBM, and contributed to accessories which were utilized on the space missions of the late '60s and '70s.  He is listed on the World Wide List of Dissident Scientists by Jean du Climont for his work on new theories of free energy.  
 
In the early 1980's, Tom became involved in Alcoholics Anonymous and achieved 31 years of sobriety before succumbing to cancer. During that time, he built a strong community both in San Jose before retirement, and then in the Murphys and Angels Camp areas of the Sierra Foothills.   
 
He loved to golf, talk politics, share his opinions on religion, and socialize.  He contributed to many charities each month as he believed in the Jesuit ideal of being a Man for Others, and finding God everywhere.     
 
He is preceded in death by his parents, Lawrence Besmer and Mary Catherine Ambrose, and by siblings Margaret, Annette, Lawrence and Helene, and survived by sisters Mary Gentes (Joe), Janet Besmer, Anna Kenny (Joe), and brother Anthony (Patty). Tom is survived by his ex-wife Dovaleen Jackson (Ed), and his eleven children: Michelle (Gary) Besmer-Poyner, Tom (Barbara) Besmer, Maureen Shilling ’81 (Ken), Cindy (Jim) Miller, Kathy (Glenn) Walker, Dan (Desiree) Besmer, Eileen (Jim) Shydlowski, John (Jennifer) Besmer, Sharon Dauskardt, Joan (Doug) Evans, Marianna (Craig) Newsam, and his 22 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren.
submitted Feb. 15, 2015 1:18P

1963

'63
Stan Hayden

Former SCU Regent Stanley David Hayden '63 was born Nov. 22, 1941, passed away on Dec. 16, 2014 at his home in San Marino, Calif. with his family by his side. He was survived by his wife of 49 years, Marcia; his four children, Katie (Willy), William "Bill" Hayden ’91 (Lindsay), Maggie Hayden Dietz ’94, and David Hayden ’96 (Shana); and his nine grandchildren, Molly, Will and Maggie Marsh; Will III and Matthew Hayden; Abbey and Henry Dietz; and Grace and Emma Hayden.

Stan was a native Angeleno and had been a resident of the San Gabriel Valley for over 35 years. He attended Loyola High School in Los Angeles and received his bachelors and masters degrees in Sociology and Child Development from The University of Southern California. He went on to teach Sociology and Child Psychology at Mt. San Antonio College in Walnut for 18 years, later leaving academia to join his father's investment company, William R. Hayden and Associates. 

A life long philanthropist and deeply committed to Catholic education, Stan served on the boards of Mayfield Junior School, Mayfield Senior School and Loyola High School, as well as on the Board of Regents (1973-1983) of Santa Clara University , where he attended before transferring to and graduating from The University of Southern California.


He was a former member of the Board of Directors of the Catholic Education Foundation in Los Angeles, and had served as president of Catholic Charities among other leadership roles. Stan, along with his wife and children, served on the Board of Directors of The William R. and Virginia Hayden Foundation, started by his father, William Rube Hayden.

A devoted husband, father and grandfather, Stan loved spending time with his family and close friends, through travel, golf and his various charitable endeavors. At the heart of Stan's life was his love for his family, friends and his Catholic faith. A "Man for Others" (Loyola Graduate '59) who lived out the motto, "Actions Not Words", Stan supported many Catholic schools and charities throughout the Archdiocese. 

Heaven has gained a true jewel of our community and, most of all, we have an advocate in Heaven, as he has now joined the Communion of Saints.

submitted Jan. 9, 2015 12:54P
'63
Rodney Holzcamp

Rodney J. Holzkamp '63, age 73, of San Francisco and Chicago, passed away peacefully in his sleep in San Francisco, on Monday, Oct 6, 2014. He was born Jan. 15, 1941, in San Francisco to Margaret (Gianfrancheschi) Holzkamp, and Rugen Holzkamp Sr. Rodney attended and graduated from St. Vincent De Paul Elementary school, St. Ignatius Preparatory HS, Santa Clara University for his B.A. in History, and California State University, SF for his Masters degree in History. He went on to teach for over 25 years at the College of Dupage in Glen Elyn, Il. Rodney was a devoted Christian, as well as an avid world traveler. He is survived by his niece Robin Whewell, and cousins Cynthia Chapman, Felton Howe Jr, Julie Bowra, Donna Guilder, Cindee Bunt, Rhoda Peterson, their families and many friends.

submitted Nov. 7, 2014 1:10P

1964

'64
Robert L. Huebner

Robert "Bob" L. Huebner MBA '64, a resident of Los Gatos, age 77, passed away peacefully at home on August 25, 2104, from complications related to diabetes. Bob was the devoted husband of Donna, with whom he shared 54 years of marriage. He was the proud father of Denny (Wendy) Huebner, Kelly (Marvin) Blough, and Joe (Jacqueline) Huebner, and loving grandfather to Brian, Anna, Jessica, Jamie, and Elle. He is also survived by his dear sister Louise Burnett, her four children and their families.

Bob Huebner was born in Palo Alto in 1936 to Ludwig and Babette Huebner, immigrants from Germany. He attended Palo Alto High School, received a bachelor's degree in engineering from San Jose State University, and received his MBA from Santa Clara University. As an adult, Bob worked in engineering and executive positions at Silicon Valley companies such as Hewlett-Packard, Royco, Varian, and Granger Associates. He retired at the age of 55 and enjoyed his later years with family, and traveling with his wife Donna to vacation spots in Lake Tahoe, Europe, the Caribbean, and Mexico. 

submitted Oct. 30, 2014 1:28P
'64
John Steinberg

John Steinberg '64 was born on Dec. 30, 1942, and passed away on Jan. 16, 2008. John was a resident of Campbell, California.

submitted Oct. 30, 2014 1:04P
GRD Leavey/MBA '64
James McDonald

James "Jim" Gaylan McDonald MBA '64 was born in Salt Lake City, Utah on Sep. 29, 1935, passed away peacefully with his loving family at his side on Aug. 28, 2014, after a stoic battle with cancer. Jim is survived by his best friend and loving wife of 37 years, Gratia McDonald, his children Michael McDonald, Jill (McDonald) Baigent, Michael Duffy, Jane Kronzer, David Matovich, and 10 grandchildren.

Jim moved to the Bay Area in 1960 to begin his 35 year career with Lockheed Missile and Space in Sunnyvale, Calif. He received his undergraduate degree from the University of Utah and his MBA from Santa Clara University and was a member of Shriners International. He will be remembered for his vast knowledge of history and politics as well as being an ardent San Francisco 49ers fan. His love of jazz, fine wine, boating and classic cars enhanced his character and enriched our lives. His intellect, wit and kindheartedness will be missed by all.

submitted Oct. 30, 2014 1:58P

1965

'65
Roger B. Johnson

Roger Bayne Johnson '65, son of Shirley (Bayne) and Everett E. Johnson (both deceased) passed away peacefully August 30, 2014, due to complications related to leukemia. Roger, 72, was born in San Luis Obispo, in July 1942, where he spent his early life. Roger was a graduate from San Luis Obispo High School in 1960. He then went to the University of Santa Clara where he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1965 with a major in history and also a ROTC Second Lieutenant Commission in the U.S. Army. Prior to entering the army, he attended the Santa Clara Law School. After entering the U.S. Army, Roger then graduated from the U.S. Army Demolition School. As a demolition expert, Roger, who was a captain at that time, was the commander of the 61st Ordnance Detachment at Fort Sill, Oklahoma, which is responsible for 100,000 square miles, including the complete state of Oklahoma and all of Texas north of Dallas and Fort Worth.

Upon leaving the U.S. Army in 1970, Roger moved to Boston and began his career in the insurance business. After a few years, he settled in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. for a number of years before returning to California. He settled in San Jose, Calif., in the early 1990s where he became the Regional Director for the American Income Life Insurance Company (AIL) before his retirement. Roger has always had a love for sports, and in his early school years he received the award two years in a row for being the best athlete of the year.

Roger is survived by his sister Janice Jonsin and brother-in-law, Brig. Gen. Larry H. DellaBitta (ret.); brother and sister-in-law Chuck and Mary Jo Johnson; nieces and nephews Laura Byrd, Curry Smith, Seth Johnson, and Noel Johnson. Great nieces and nephews: Avery Smith, Zoey, Willow, Charlotte, Henry and Mason Johnson. Roger was preceded in death by his nephew Jonn Jonsin.

submitted Oct. 30, 2014 1:23P
'65
John E. Rolleri

John Emmett Rolleri '65 was born in Alameda, Calif. on May 9, 1943 and died in San Francisco on Aug. 28, 2013. John was the son of the late Thomas T Rolleri, MD and Katherine W Rolleri and brother to Michael J Rolleri and Thomas T Rolleri, Jr.

John attended St Joseph's Military Academy, St John's Military Academy and San Rafael Military Academy where he attained the rank of battalion commander and graduated high school with honors. He went on to graduate from the University of San Francisco with a bachelors degree and earned a masters degree in taxation from Golden Gate University.

John spent his whole career as an accountant and Certified Public Accountant specializing in tax matters, most recently with the William Shine Company in San Francisco.

He had great and varied interests, particularly in the arts. John regularly attended San Francisco Opera and Symphony performances, but his seat was empty for the opening of the Symphony season on September 3. Tango dancing was his late night obsession. Toting a bag with his dancing shoes he joined many like-minded friends at Milongas held around the City.

John was also a accomplished basketball player in his younger days and was not reticent about sending critiques and suggestions to some NBA players about their style of play.

Above all else, John was a kind, gentle and learned man. He seemed at times to be shy and unassuming, but when it came time to discuss important and difficult issues of the day John was well prepared and assertive on those subjects. Many times he proved to others that their misconceptions of one matter or another were unfounded. We will miss him, his smile and his quickness of wit.

John, a bachelor, is survived by his brothers; his nephews, Paul and Rico Rolleri; his niece, Teri Rolleri; his grand-nephews, Kyle and Evan Rolleri and grand-nieces, Rachel, Gianna and Siena Rolleri. John is also survived by numerous cousins in Angels Camp and northern California.

submitted Jan. 9, 2015 1:00P

1966

'66
Robert G. Gabalec

Robert G. Gabalec MBA '66, age 90, formerly a resident of Naperville, went to be with the Lord on Sunday, November 16, 2014, at Illinois Veterans Home in Quincy, IL. He was born June 10, 1924 in Cicero to Edward and Agnes Gabalec. Bob served as a Navigator during WWII for the Army Air Corps. He was a graduate of Purdue University and Santa Clara University. He enjoyed working with his hands doing stained glass, woodworking and making furniture and toys for his grandchildren. He loved family trips and especially loved to be with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He is survived by his children, Thomas (Linda) Gabalec and Ruth (James) Milashus; grandchildren, Jennifer Milashus, Craig Gabalec and Amanda Welsand; and 3 great-grandchildren, Josh, Nicole and Brian. He was preceded in death by his wife of 67 years, Jeanne A. Gabalec, and 2 grandchildren, Jimmy and Neal Milashus. 

submitted Dec. 8, 2014 6:42P
UGRD Leavey Business '66
Jim Lanza

James Anthony Lanza '66 entered into eternal rest on Dec. 21, 2014, in Phoenix, Ariz. He was 70 years old.

James was born on March 9, 1944 in Seattle, Wash., and was the eldest of eight children of Joseph and Gloria Lanza. He grew up in Seward Park and later became a standout athlete in football, baseball, and basketball at Seattle Prep. He continued on to Santa Clara University in California where he was a standout player on the football team (as a member of the "Rodents") and graduated in 1966 with a degree in business. He stayed in touch with many of his close SCU friends after he graduated. 


James worked in insurance for several years, and then he met the love of his life, Gloria Ludke from Port Angeles. James and Gloria married in Port Angeles on May 20, 1972. They bought a home in Seattle and started a family in 1974. They had two sons, Mario and Dominic, and then James switched careers and became a lawyer after attending and graduating from Gonzaga Law School in Spokane in 1980.

James and his family moved to Bellevue in 1981, and he worked as a personal injury lawyer on the Eastside for more than 20 years. He relocated to Port Townsend in 2004, and spent the remainder of his life there, aside from the last few months of his life which were spent in an assisted living facility in Phoenix, Ariz., where he had moved to be closer to his son and grandchildren.

James was an active member of St. Louise Parish in Bellevue, and he was a well-respected youth football and basketball coach in Bellevue for many years. He was also a proud member of the Seattle Seafair Clowns for most of his life. But his greatest love was probably the sport of horse racing. James loved to go to the track (first Longacres, and then Emerald Downs), and he loved anything involved with horses or horse racing or teaching his sons about horse racing. He was also a great bowler, he carried a mid 200's average as a young man and he later taught his sons to be standout bowlers as well.

James will be remembered as an exceptionally sweet man who had a good heart, a successful law career, a great family, and the innate ability to find free parking anywhere in the state of Washington.

James is survived by his two sons, Mario Lanza ’96 (Diana) Upland, Calif., and Dominic Lanza (Jess) of Phoenix, Ariz. He is also survived by four grandchildren, Vanessa, Nicholas, Ben, and Luke, as well as seven siblings, David, Julie, Vincent, Gina, Mary, Lisa, and Lori. He is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his wife of 31 years, Gloria Ludke Lanza, as well as his parents, Joseph Lanza ’32 and Gloria Lanza.

submitted Jan. 9, 2015 2:00P
UGRD Arts & Sciences '66
Jean McCloskey

Jean McCloskey ’66 died at age 70 on Thursday, Nov. 13, 2014 in Los Gatos, Calif. of a stroke. Jean was born March 28, 1944 in Sausalito, Calif. to Stewart Mackie and Frances Kelly. She graduated Santa Clara University in 1966 and married Denis McCloskey, her husband of 50 years. Over the course of her life, Jean filled many roles, from mother to professional potter to teacher to graphic designer. She ended her career as a mission planner for servicing missions of the Hubbell Space Telescope. In her last decade, Jean had become an avid bike rider in Santa Cruz and Santa Clara Counties and abroad. She has lived with her family in North Yorkshire, England and Annapolis, Md., but Los Gatos, Calif. has been her primary home for decades. Jean is survived by her children Jenner, Amy and Kevin McCloskey, her husband Denis McCloskey ’63, M.S. ’69 and her sister Aileen Mackie.

submitted Nov. 13, 2014 1:28P
UGRD Arts & Sciences '66
Dr Kevin Patrick Barr

Dr. Kevin Barr ’66 passed way on November 19, 2014 at his home in Boise, Idaho after a long struggle with cancer.  Kevin was born in London and spent his infant nights sleeping in the London Underground to avoid the nightly bombings. At age 3, his parents, William and Marion Barr, took Kevin to Australia where they lived until they moved to California in 1953. Kevin graduated from Santa Clara University and earned a PhD in Physics from the University of Kansas. He worked as an Aerospace Scientist for 32 years in Los Angeles, Chicago, and Boise before retiring in 2006.

He had a lifelong love of all of God's creatures. He volunteered for many years at Zoo Boise and was honored to be a member of the Friends of Zoo Boise Board of Directors. He traveled over the world for many years but had a special affection for Africa where he went many times for photographic safaris. He was a proud Irish citizen and visited Ireland and his Irish relatives at least once a year for the last twenty-five years.

He was known in the neighborhood as Snake Man because he loved to take his snakes for walks. He was fascinated by the universe. He could talk to a child or an adult about the smallest particle or the largest star and everything in between. He lived in a different plane from most of us - he was a genius.

Kevin is survived by his loving wife of 45 years, Mary Pat; and by four younger siblings: Brian Barr ’67, Michael, Maria, and Jeanette, whom Kevin claimed to have raised.

submitted Dec. 4, 2014 9:29P
GRD Leavey/MBA '66
Allen K. Tibodeau

Allen K. Tibodeau MBA ’66, age 76, of Marion, Iowa, died Nov. 22, 2014, at Mercy Medical Center. Survivors include his wife of 50 years, Julia; five children, Pam Wild, of Marion, Michelle (Paul) Sillman, of Cedar Rapids, Janette (Brian) Shea, of Chicago, Ill., Kevin Tibodeau, of Marion, and Joshua Tibodeau, of Hiawatha; eight grandchildren, Zach, Lauren, and Elizabeth Wild, Nick, Jordan, and Anthony Sillman, and Eleanor and Julia Shea; sister, Jeanne (Larry) Schuetzle, of Cary, Ill.; brother, Jim Tibodeau, of Phoenix, Ariz.; and his dogs, Charlie and Sophie. He was preceded in death by his parents and sister, Shirley Baker.

Allen was born Dec. 13, 1937, the son of Kenneth and Mildred (Willette) Tibodeau in Brush Creek. He grew up and graduated from High School in Blue Earth. Allen received his B.A. from Mankato State, in Mankato and his MBA from the University of Santa Clara, in Santa Clara, Calif. He was a software engineer for 30 years at Rockwell Collins. After retirement, Allen looked forward to his weekly gatherings with his former colleagues.
 
Allen was a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church and the Knights of Columbus. He was a veteran of the U.S. Navy. Allen enjoyed watching sports, especially the Iowa Hawkeyes. He enjoyed camping with his family and fishing in Canada and Minnesota with his friends. He also enjoyed gardening, tinkering, and spending time with his family.
submitted Dec. 3, 2014 10:13A

1967

GRD Law '67
John Triplett

John R. Triplett J.D. ’67 was born on July 11, 1934. He passed away on Sept. 12, 2014, in Los Gatos. What characterized his remarkable life was his love for his family. Born in Pierre, South Dakota, to Renold and Mildred Triplett. He had 3 sisters. Dad served proudly in the Marines. Graduated from University of Oregon, went to law school at Santa Clara University, graduated in 1967. Dad had a private law practice and then was appointed to the Superior Court and served as a Court Commissioner for over 25 years. He is survived by his wife of over 52 years, Patricia and his 3 daughters, Terry, Mary and Kate. He also had 6 grandchildren. 

submitted Feb. 1, 2015 5:08P

1969

'69
Bonnie J. Waldron

Bonnie J. Waldron ’69, resident of San Jose, child of God, was summoned to the Lord Almighty on November 8, 2014. May her loving spirit continue to guide, protect, and shine down upon us all.

Born one of three siblings on May 10, 1947, at Glenview Naval Air Station, outside Chicago, Ill., to Theodore J., and Jeune M., Shara, Bonnie, and her family, would soon relocate to Rose Avenue, in Mountain View, Calif. After attending elementary school at St. Joseph Catholic School, and graduating from Holy Cross High School (Mountain View, Calif.), Bonnie went on to Santa Clara University where she would meet her future husband, Seaton "Rocky" Daly Jr. ’67, who would predecease her in death.

Bonnie followed Rocky to Spokane, Wash., where she would complete her bachelor's degree from Gonzaga University, and pursue a career in teaching through Spokane School District No. 81 and the Archdiocese of Spokane. After Rocky's untimely passing, Bonnie would once again find love and devotion through marriage to James V. Waldron by whom she is survived. Additionally, Bonnie is survived by her beloved four children Shara Daly-Arnoldi (Greg), Kimber Daly, Seaton M. Daly III (Colleen), and Molly Daly-Avery (Ian); and her treasured grandchildren Emilie and Gregory Arnoldi, Isaiah Avery, and Rocco and Sydney Daly, along with countless other family and friends whom were blessed to know her. Bonnie will forever be remembered for her positive outlook, loving smile, and duteous service to others. 

submitted Dec. 8, 2014 7:03P

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